Category Archives: toddlers

Boost Pincer Grasp With Tiny Containers

These days I am getting pretty…lazy.  My go-to items are designed so that children automatically  improve their grasp or their posture without my intervention.  I am  always searching for easy carryover strategies to share with parents too.  As with most things in life, easy is almost always better than complicated.

My recent fave piece of equipment to develop pincer grasp in toddlers and preschoolers is something you can pick up in your grocery store, but you are gonna use it quite differently from the manufacturer’s marketing plan….

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Enter the tiny party cup, AKA the disposable shot glass!  Yes, the one you used when you played “quarters” in school.  The very same.  These little cups work really well to teach toddlers to drink from an open cup, but they are also terrific containers to promote pincer grasp in young children.  Drop a few small snacks into these little cups and discourage them from dumping their snack onto the table instead of reaching inside with their fingers.

No matter how small your child’s fingers are, they will automatically attempt a tripod or pincer grasp to retrieve their treat.  You should’t have to say much of anything, but it never hurts to demonstrate how easy it is.  Make sure you eat your snack once you take it out of your cup.  After all, grownups deserve snacks too!

These little containers are much sturdier than paper cups.  This means that they can survive the grasp of a toddler who cannot grade their force well.  The cylindrical shape, with a slightly smaller base than top, naturally demands a refined grasp.  The cups have a bit of texture around the middle of the cup (at least mine do)  which gives some helpful tactile input to assist the non-dominant hand to maintain control during use.  They are top-shelf dishwasher safe and hand-washable, in case you feel strongly that disposables aren’t part of your scene.

Has your child mastered pincer grasp?  These little cups are fun to use in water and sand tables as well.  Mastery of pouring and scooping develops strong wrist and forearm control for utensil use and pre-writing with crayons.

For more ideas on developing grasp, take a look at Want Pincer Grasp Before Her First Birthday? Bet You’ll Be Surprised At What Moves (Hint) Build Hand Control! and Develop Pincer Grasp With Ziploc Bags.

 

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The Cube Chair: Your Special Needs Toddler’s New Favorite Seat!

 

 

Finding a good chair for your special needs toddler isn’t easy.  Those cute table-and-chair sets from IKEA and Pottery Barn are made for older kids.  Sometimes much older, like the size of kids in kindergarten.  Even a larger child with motor or sensory issues will often fall right off those standard chairs!

Should you use a low bench?  I am a big fan of the Baby Bjorn footstool for bench sitting in therapy, but without a back, many toddlers don’t last very long without an adult to sit with them.  Independent sitting and playing is important to develop motor and cognitive skills.   The cute little toddler armchairs that you can get with their name embroidered on the backrest look great, but kids with sensory or motor issues end up in all sorts of awkward positions in them.  Those chairs aren’t a good choice for any hypermobile child or children with spasticity.

Enter the cube chair.  It has so many great features, I thought I would list them for you:

  • Made of plastic, it is relatively lightweight and easy to clean.  While not non-slip, there is a slight texture on the surface that helps objects grip a little.  Add some dycem or another non-slip surface, and you are all set.
  • Cube chairs can be a safe choice for “clumsy” kids. Kids fall. It happens to all of them.  The design makes it very stable, so it is harder to tip over. The rounded edges are safer than the sharp wooden corners on standard activity tables.
  • It isn’t very expensive.  Easily found on special needs sites, it is affordable and durable.
  • A cube chair is also a TABLE! That’s right; turn it over, and it is a square table that doesn’t tip over easily when your toddler leans on it.
  • Get two:  now you have a chair and table set!  Or use them as a larger table or a surface for your child to cruise around to practice walking.  That texture will help them maintain their grip.  The chairs can stack for storage, but you really will be using them all the time.
  • It has two seat heights.  When your child is younger, use the lower seat with a higher back and sides for support and safety.   When your child gets taller, use the other side for a slightly higher seat with less back support.
  • The cube chair is quite stable for kids that need to hold onto armrests to get in and out of a chair.  The truly therapeutic chairs, such as the Rifton line, are the ultimate in stability, but they are very expensive, very heavy, and made of solid wood.

Who doesn’t do well with these chairs?  Children who use cube chairs have to be able to sit without assistance and actively use their hip and thigh muscles to stabilize their feet on the floor.  Kids with such significant trunk instability that they need a pelvic “seatbelt” and/or lateral supports won’t do well with this chair.  A cube chair isn’t going to give them enough postural support. If you aren’t sure if your child has these skills, ask your occupational or physical therapist.  They could save you money and time by giving you more specific seating recommendations for your child.

Your child may be too small or too large for a cube chair.  Kids who were born prematurely often remain smaller and shorter for the first years, and a child needs to be at least 28-30 inches tall (71-76 cm) to sit well in a cube chair without padding.

You may add a firm foam wedge to activate trunk muscles if they can use one and still maintain their posture in this chair, or use the Stokke-style chair A Simple Strategy To Improve Your Child’s Posture In A Stokke Tripp Trapp or Special Tomato Chair or the Rifton chair until your child has developed enough control to take advantage of a cube chair.

Looking for more information on positioning and play?  Check out Hypermobility and Proprioception: Why Loose Joints Create Sensory Processing Problems for Children and How To Pick The Best Potty Seat For Toilet Training A Child With Low Tone.  I am in the process of writing a series of practical guides for parents of children with hypermobility, so keep checking back on my site for the launch this summer!!

Can You K-Tape Kids With Ehlers-Danlos and Other Connective Tissue Disorders?

enis-yavuz-387710-unsplashThe short answer:  some of these kids, some of the time.  The long answer:  To use K-tape effectively, you need to understand the mechanics of tape on the skin and underlying tissues, how connective tissue disorders disrupt skin healing, how to minimize skin shear and inflammation, and that only using one type of tape may not be enough.

I love to use taping for kids with hypermobility, but kids with connective tissue disorders such as Ehlers-Danlos syndrome aren’t always able to tolerate taping without some significant adaptations.  Children that were preemies often have the same issues that make taping more challenging.  Fragile skin, immune system reactions, etc. will require adaptations and alterations to standard taping procedures and protocols.  But it doesn’t mean an automatic “no”!

Here are my clinical suggestions to make K-taping more successful for kids with connective tissue distorders:

  1. Very few children with connective tissue disorders are able to communicate discomfort clearly. Their hypermobility creates limitations in proprioceptive and kinesthetic awareness.  Children of all ages with poor proprioceptive discrimination have a sensory deficit that directly reduces their feedback for taping.   Therapists have to be very skilled at observation and clinical judgement.  A good therapist will carefully listen to a parent’s descriptions of movement, skin conditions and complaints to hear clues that should guide your taping.
  2. Assume significant skin sensitivity and fragility.  If a child sails through your test tape period, don’t assume that you can use regular taping procedures and protocols.  Always use a test tape, and consider doing multiple test tapes in different locations and with different levels of tension.  Paper-off tension is highly recommended in treatment, and so is caution with taping protocols that add significant skin shear.  Those include placing the tissue on stretch as you apply the tape, and protocols in which rotary force is exerted (such as spiral patterns around limbs).  Because skin recovery may be impaired, skin tolerance can deteriorate after repeated taping.  Use the most conservative treatment plan, even if you are getting good results.  Slow and steady is better for everyone.
  3. Expect to take taping breaks and shorten the amount of time tape stays on the skin. These kids should receive longer periods without tape.  This allows any micro-damage to be repaired.  Once the tape has lost the majority of it’s elastic properties, it is less beneficial and becomes more of a risk for skin integrity.  Instruct parents to trim the tape or remove it completely when the edges start to catch on clothing.  The effect is constant shear on the skin next to the loose edge.  This is irritating for all kids, but it can create significant inflammation for kids with CTD’s.  Try taping another location and returning to taping after a substantial break.  Children with connective tissue disorders usually have more than one area of instability that could benefit from taping.
  4. Use pediatric tape and pediatric protocols well into childhood and perhaps beyond.  I use the Milk of Magnesia barrier technique with all children under 3, and with all children with diagnosed or suspected connective tissue disorders.  I am also a big fan of PerformTex’ pediatric tape.  Their adhesive seems to be to be less intense than ROC Rx tape, and significantly less adhesive than regular tape.  The cure monkeys and flowers don’t hurt!  I am awaiting a shipment of Kineseotex’ Light Touch tape, which has an ultra-gentle adhesive.  Once I started using pediatric tape, I haven’t looked back.  No parent wants to see their child’s skin inflamed, and no therapist wants to strain their client’s trust by appearing to be unconcerned about skin integrity and pain.
  5. Expect that some children truly cannot tolerate taping, and move on.  Good therapists have many different ways to make a difference in a child’s life, and taping may be tolerated better as a child grows up.  We can never predict the clinical course of a connective tissue disorder with certainty, so don’t give up, but don’t become rigid in your treatment planning either.

Looking for more information on treating hypermobility and hypermobility syndromes? Check out How Hypermobility Affects Self-Image, Behavior and Activity Levels in Children and Hypermobility and Proprioception: Why Loose Joints Create Sensory Processing Problems for Children.  I am working on an e-book series for parents and therapists of kids with hypermobility.  Check back here soon to see when and where it is available!

 

My e-book on potty training, The Practical Guide To Toilet Training Your Child With Low Muscle Tone, is a great reference for therapists and a helpful resource for families.  Many of our hypermobile preschoolers are still in pull-ups because no one knows how to make it easier.  My book has readiness checklists and equipment assessment guides that can help kids move forward with training immediately!  Visit my website to purchase my book at tranquil babies, or go to Amazon , or visit Your Therapy Source, a wonderful site for therapy materials.

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Use The Fast Food Rule For Better Attunement With Your Child

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What’s attunement?  The physical and emotional connection that a healthy parent makes with their upset child that brings them both back into a calm and balanced state.  Why is it important?  Because without attunement you don’t have healthy attachment, and attachment is the foundation for a healthy emotional and interpersonal life.  Attunement and attachment are some of the biggest issues in psychology today.  Everyone is talking about it, but once those early years are over, it takes a lot of therapy to repair rifts in this foundation.  So reinforce your emotional connection with your toddler, and know that the effort you make today will help them recognize healthy relationships for the rest of their life.

How does The Fast Food Rule help parents develop attunement?  By reflecting back the child’s perceived complaint with enough gesture, facial expression and vocal intensity to register in the mind of a child, your child will feel that you “get” them, just as they are, regardless of whether you agree that a broken cookie is the end of the world.  Knowing that a parent understand where you are coming from is essential.  For more details, read Stop The Whining With The Fast Food Rule.

Again, later in life, realizing that a partner isn’t “getting them” is important when deciding whether to develop or stay in a relationship.  From there, your child will be able to consciously decide to communicate more effectively, invest more time and effort in the relationship, or move on to another person who can connect more successfully with them.

Does this mean that you give in to every howl from a young child?  Of course not.  Even toddlers know that they won’t get everything they demand.  They may be unhappy to hear that they can’t have cookies for dinner, but they don’t actually think they will be having them for dinner.  What matters is that they know that you understand them, understand their feelings, and aren’t rushing to squash their anger, sadness or frustration.

Once you see those little shoulders drop, hear the scream become a wail or a whine, and get more eye contact, you will have been given the green light to offer a solution.  Wait for it.  And look for that moment when the two of you are calm and moving forward together.  That, my friends, it attunement at work.

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Improving Daily Life Skills for Kids With Special Needs

 

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Therapro, the terrific source for a lot of handy therapy equipment and especially for items that help kids with sensory processing issues, has posted another piece from me on ADLs.  Take a look: What Helps Special Needs Kids Tolerate Grooming and Hygiene?

“Activities of Daily Living” don’t have the cache’ of kineseotaping or therapeutic listening, but helping families improve the little things in life is something I haven’t ignored.  The basics of life are still the basics, and when they are a struggle, life gets harder.  Every single day.

Sometimes using SI techniques like the Wilbarger Protocol Can You Use The Wilbarger Protocol With Kids That Have Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome? makes self-care activities better, but sometimes you need a targeted approach.  This post describes some of my best strategies to make face-washing, tooth-brushing, dressing and bathing easier for kids to tolerate and they also help them to become independent at these important skills.  After all, one of the best techniques to reduce defensiveness/aversion is to have a child do the task independently.  They can control the pace, the amount of force and the timing.  And they are empowered.  So many kids with special needs develop the impression that they don’t have the ability to do things for themselves.

So check out my post on Therapro, and then go shopping for some of their terrific materials for your child or for your therapy practice!

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The view north from West Point.  Welcome spring!

How Hypermobility Affects Self-Image, Behavior and Activity Levels in Children

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Loose joints affect emotions and behavior too!

As rehab therapists, OTs and PTs are focused on skill building and reaching functional goals with our clients.  But feelings influence behavior, and so therapists have to be aware of more than joints and muscles when looking at function.  In this post, I would like to address the many ways that hypermobility can create social and emotional issues for children.  Without awareness of these experiences, we cannot be the best therapists for these kids, or help parents be the best advocates for their children.

Because hypermobility varies so widely in it’s severity, it’s presentation (generalized, primarily proximal, or primarily distal) and it’s progression (decreasing with age or increasing with repeated injuries and overstretching of tissues), the psychological impact on a child will also vary tremendously.  The child who has had significant and global hypermobility from birth will have a very different profile from the young teen who is only recently experiencing functional issues with instability or pain after years of sports-related injuries.

Here are some major points to consider:

  1. Hypermobility and it’s accompanying effect of stability and proprioceptive processing contribute to both sensory seeking and sedentary behavior, sometimes in the same child.  Add in pain and fatigue, and perhaps even POTS or dysautonomia, and you have a kid that is both active and inactive, both attentive and unfocused on tasks at different times of the day.  Self-regulation appears to be very unstable.  If a child’s entire physical condition isn’t taken into assessment, a referral for an ADHD diagnosis could result.
  2. Difficulties with mobility and stability make active play and engagement in sports more difficult.  This has social as well as physical effects on children at all ages.  For some kids, they can play but get injured at a more frequent rate.  Other children aren’t able to keep up with their peers on the playground and seek more sedentary or independent activities.  And for some other kids, they experience the pain of being the last kid picked for group play or being bullied for the awkward way they move.  The child that was more mobile and athletic when younger, and is now experiencing a loss of skill or an increase in pain, is also at risk for feelings of depression and fear of movement.  That fear is a real problem, with a name: kineseophobia.   This isn’t the same as gravitational insecurity, but it may look like it  to a clinician unless that therapist is aware of a child’s history or all of the current clinical problems.
  3. Kids with hypermobility can have problems with falling and staying asleep, which affects daytime alertness and energy.  It is well-documented that a lack of good-quality sleep results in childhood behavioral changes for typical kids.  Pain, lack of daytime activity levels high enough to trigger sleep, bladder control issues leading to nighttime awakening or bedwetting…the list of sleep issues for kids with hypermobility can be really long.  Evaluating a child’s behavior without knowing about these issues is going to lead to incorrect assumptions about the source of reactions and interactions.
  4. Hypermobile kids can have issues with feeding that contribute to patterns of behavior that extend beyond the dinner table.  Difficulty with eating, chewing, and even constipation can result in behavioral changes.  Crankiness is only the beginning.  Imagine being constantly constipated or gagging/choking on food.  Especially with younger kids, learning social interaction skills at the table can be lost in a parent’s need to alter food choice or their concerns over nutrition.  The development of persistent oppositional behavior can begin at the dinner table and spill over into all interactions.  Hypermobile kids don’t always have issues that restrict them from eating; some kids don’t get enough exercise or find eating to be a pleasurable activity that doesn’t take too much energy or skill.  Used along with media use or gaming, snacking is something that they enjoy.  The extra weight they carry makes movement more difficult and places extra force on joints.  But exercising in pain and fatigue isn’t an easy fix.
  5.  Children develop social and emotional skills in engagement with others.  The child who attends therapy instead of playdates, the tween that doesn’t have the stamina to go on a ski trip, the child who can’t sit still during a long play or movie.  All of these kids are having difficulties that reduce their social interactions to some degree.  Encourage the families of the children you treat to be mindful of a child’s whole life experiences and weave interventions into life, not life into interventions.

As therapists, we owe it to our clients to ask questions that help us understand the daily challenges of life and create treatment plans that support a child’s social and emotional development.  Waiting for mental health professionals to ask those questions isn’t enough.  And remember, if there is a counselor or therapist involved, share what you know about the impact of hypermobility on behavior.  Without awareness of the physiological and sensory basis of behavior, professionals may make an incomplete assessment that will not result in progress!

 

Are you a parent of a child with hypermobility?  Check out For Kids With Hypermobility, “Listen To Your Body” Doesn’t Teach Them To Pace Themselves. Here’s What Really Helps. and Career Planning for Teens with JRA, EDS, and Other Chronic Health Issues for some insights into positive ways to address the future.

Looking for more information on treating kids with hypermobility?  Take a look at Can You Use The Wilbarger Protocol With Kids That Have Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome? , Hypermobile Kids, Sleep, And The Hidden Problem With Blankets  and Can You K-Tape Kids With Ehlers-Danlos and Other Connective Tissue Disorders?.

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OXO for Kids: Great Tableware For Older Kids With Sensory and Motor Issues

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Does your child knock over her milk on a daily basis?  Do utensils seem to fly out of your son’s hands?  I treat kids with hypermobility, coordination and praxis issues, sensory discrimination limitations, etc.; they can all benefit from this terrific line of cups, dinnerware and utensils.

Yes, OXO, the same people that sell you measuring cups and mixing bowls: they have a line of children’s products.  Their baby and toddler items are great, but no 9 year-old wants to eat out of a “baby plate”.

OXO’s items for older kids don’t look or feel infantile.   The simple lines hide the great features that make them so useful to children with challenges:

  1. The plates and bowls have non-slip bases.  Those little nudges that have other dinnerware flipping over aren’t going to tip these items over so easily.
  2. The cups have a colorful grippy band that helps little hands hold on, and the strong visual cue helps kids place their hands in the right spot for maximal control.
  3. The utensils have a larger handle to provide more tactile, proprioceptive and kinesthetic input while eating.  Don’t know what that is?  Don’t worry!  It means that your child gets more multi-sensory information about what is in her hand so that it stays in her hand.
  4. The dinnerware and the cups can handle being dropped, but they have a bit more weight (thus more sensory feedback) than a paper plate/cup or thin plastic novelty items.
  5. There is nothing about this line that screams “adaptive equipment”.  Older kids are often very sensitive to being labeled as different, but they may need the benefits of good universal design.  Here it is!
  6. All of them are dishwasher-safe.  If you have a child with special needs, you really don’t want to be hand-washing dinnerware if you don’t have to.

For more information about mealtime strategies, please take a look at Which Spoon Is Best To Teach Grown-Up Grasp? and Teach Spoon Grip By Making It Fun And Sharing a Laugh With Your Child.

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